If you think it’s simply a matter of getting dressed nicely and showing up – you’re wrong! Attending holiday parties can be enjoyable, but it’s important to be mindful of a handful of other details to ensure a positive experience for yourself and others. Here are the Do’s and Don’ts of attending holiday parties to keep in mind:
DO RSVP but DON’T Arrive Early
Respond to invitations in a timely manner, indicating whether you’ll attend or not. Make sure you arrive on time, but not early. When you are punctual, you show respect for the host’s efforts. Show up too early, however, and this can add stress to the host as they might feel like they have to entertain you while they are putting the finishing touches on their event.
DON’T Bring Uninvited Guests
Respect the host’s guest list and don’t bring additional people without prior approval.
DON’T Arrive Empty Handed
Avoid showing up without a small token of appreciation for the host. A small gift, like a bottle of wine or a festive treat, is a thoughtful gesture. It doesn’t have to be expensive.
DO Mingle and Participate in Activities!
Be present and engaged rather than spending too much time on your phone. Interact with different people, and try to include others in conversations. If there are games or activities, join in to contribute to the festive atmosphere. On the same note, don’t monopolize conversations and steer clear of sensitive subjects such as politics and religion to maintain a positive atmosphere.
DO Mind Your Manners and DON’T Criticize or Complain
I think it goes without saying, but keep negative comments to yourself and focus on the positive aspects of the event. Everyone appreciates spending time around happy, upbeat and positive people. Remember to say “please” and “thank you” and exhibit good manners throughout the event.
DO Offer to Help but DON’T Insist
It is always polite to assist with small tasks or clean up, if appropriate. However, if the host requests you don’t clean up, don’t insist!
DO Limit Alcohol Consumption
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again – enjoy responsibly and know your limits to avoid any embarrassing situations.
DON’T Overstay Your Welcome and DO Say Thank You Before Leaving
Be mindful of the end time of the party and leave at an appropriate hour. Thank the host before leaving and consider sending a thank-you note afterward.
By keeping these do’s and don’ts of attending holiday parties in mind, you can contribute to a positive and enjoyable atmosphere for everyone. You’ll be an A+ guest, and you will likely secure many holiday party invites in the future. Happy holidays!
Ps. Are you the host or considering hosting your own party? Here are The Do’s and Don’ts of Hosting a Holiday Party!
xoxo,
Mindy
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