It’s the time of the year where parties are everywhere and it’s time to break out your best party manners! Being a good guest at a party involves being engaging, considerate, and mindful of the host’s efforts. Here are the Do’s and Don’ts of being an awesome party guest:
RSVP Promptly & Be Punctual
Respond to the invitation as soon as possible, indicating whether you will attend or not. This helps the host plan for the number of guests. Arrive on time for the party. If you’re going to be late, let the host know in advance.
Dress Appropriately
Dress appropriately for the occasion, considering the dress code mentioned in the invitation or any specific holiday theme. Is the event or any of the party activities outside? Dress for the weather!
Announce Any Dietary Restrictions
If you have dietary restrictions or allergies, inform the host in advance and offer to bring a dish that suits your needs. Odds are, you aren’t the only one who has specific needs and providing alternative options will be helpful and convenient for others who have the same restrictions.
Socialize & Mingle
Take the opportunity to socialize with other guests. Don’t isolate yourself, and be open to meeting new people. Bring a positive and festive attitude. Compliment the host on their decorations or express your excitement about the holiday season. Engage in the festivities and activities planned for the party. Whether it’s games, dancing, or other entertainment, join in the spirit of the celebration.
Respect Space & Decorations
If you’re celebrating in someone’s home, be mindful and careful around any decorations they have put up. Avoid touching or moving things without permission. On the same note, if there’s alcohol at the party, drink responsibly. Avoid excessive drinking to ensure you remain courteous and in control.
Bring a Gift for the Host
If appropriate, show appreciation to your host (or hosts) by bringing a small gift, such as a bottle of wine, a box of chocolates, or a festive bouquet of flowers. Need some ideas? Here are 5 Great Gift Ideas for the Party Host.
Offer to Help
If you see the host struggling or needing assistance, offer to help with tasks like serving food, cleaning up, or organizing activities. However, if the host asks you not to help, don’t insist. It’s enough to offer and your kind consideration will definitely be noticed.
Express Gratitude & Send a Thank You Note
Before leaving, thank the host for inviting you and express your appreciation for the effort they put into hosting the party. Send a thank-you note or message to the host after the party, expressing your gratitude for their hospitality.
Remember, being a good guest at a holiday party is about contributing positively to the festive atmosphere and showing appreciation for the host’s efforts in creating a joyful celebration. Cheers!
xoxo,
Mindy
